Self help

I really enjoy self help books. They are a very big part of my life. I don't know if you have ever read any, or used any. But, i will say that they are fabulous depending on the ones you get. And, you don't have to limit them to just psychology ones. You can even dabble into new age ones like i do. I really love books that have to do with astrology, and magic. books about nature. and the universe. I am an eclectic believer, I follow many religions and have many views. I have taken a very long time to accept, that i will never accept one path in life. There are many people in this world, and therefore many beliefs, in this world. And, I refuse to believe that only one way is right. If that were the case then we would all look, and speak the same, now wouldn't we? But, we don't and therefore, life just gets so more interesting doesn't it?  Once you can be accepting of this the world becomes so much more beautiful. and the things that used to worry you almost fade away. money is no longer more important then time. You will find that your job is not as important as spending quality time with those you love. You could lose your job tomorrow and be fine. Because, you can always get a new one. But, your child's first steps, words, and joys are irreplaceable. you can never get those things back. you can always get together with your family next year, that is true but, you are not promised tomorrow. so that aunt or cousin, even parents may no longer be there by the time 365 days roll back around. but, that promotion can be because your job is a system it is a plan it is a sequence in a large part of someone else's plan that can easily be replaced by a new one and often is so is it really worth missing out on what is truly important? this link leads to one of my favorite stories which i will also post bellow.  http://theburiedlife.tumblr.com/post/33811181290/a-professor-stood-before-his-philosophy-class-and 
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles roll

ed into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed..
'Now,' said the professor as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.And, above all you need to remember "Take care of yourself first!" How are you supposed to take care of anyone, or anything if you are always warn down? Or, If you are constantly exhausted because, you are running yourself too thin. Trying to take care of family, friends, and your job. If you feel like you are being torn too many ways i really suggest that you step back. Take a minuet and then, tell your mother you can not talk every day. Tell your significant other to grab a cold shower every now and then. Above all back off at work on being everyone's go to person, learn how to say no. Even better, love the fact that you don't, and should not feel bad when you do. Or, if you miss that company picnic, or have to cancel on a friend. Because, either you just don't want to go. Or maybe you just feel too warn down. learn that it is okay, and quite healthy to do so! 

"Rape Poem To End All Rape Poems" by Rutgers University

This poem is so amazing I am in love with it! the way it is played out is fantastic! A must see!!! 

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typical night.

Doing the typical watching a movie, ordering pizza. watching my son play with his blocks. and trying hard to find a way to belong. I feel like i have nothing serious that I want to dedicate my life to. and I am in search of that very thing. I would love to be able to make a living off of writing. Or even making things but, I am having a hard time breaking through that barrier. Any way got off track, so I am watching step up 2 one of my favorite movies it is so freaking inspirational! Also I am really new to this so please don't judge it harshly but creative criticism is seriously welcome. please visit My Site :)http://eclecticbeginnings.com/

Make money from home research

Hey, sorry I have been away for so long I have been doing so pretty extensive research. Mainly on how you can make money from home. But, sadly I am finding more then not they are all schemes. Also often it involves a site that you can actually sign up for free, but, because they found most Americans are lazy, or do not have the time, or dedication, to put into researching properly they never found out that you can actually do everything they do for you. Or at least what they say they will do for you. I have signed up for and seen the inside of quite a few such as, myinboxdollars.com. empowernetwork.com. swagbucks.com. 20minpayday.com, and the one sponsored by Micheal fox, and many. many more :( and, while you may have tried them and liked them. I think you will agree they all are lying when they say put your money away because within the next fifteen min of your sign up, be it a three step process, or if its a survey site you end up having to do "Free trials." Which most of them have a fee, and more then not they are counting on you forgetting you signed up, and then you end up owing even more money. That you don't have. which is unfair. I am getting so sick of it to the point where I am attempting to cut out the middle man and deal with these free sights on my own and yes it is hard. But, that is why they call it a job! No one ever said it would be easy and if it is that's because it costs you something, because you are basically employing someone to do it for you. Now i will tell you that exspress.cashrewards.com you will have to do trial offers but you only need one credit and you Will need a credit card don't let them fool you! But, it is entirely possible to cancel the trials and owe little to nothing. However, you end up guaranteed for life on that site, and for every person you refer you get twenty dollars and there are real people using this just look it up on YouTube. Also there is clickbank.com now I am very new to this site but the concept is simple you work with large companies, by promoting their products and every time someone clicks on your link and buys something, you get part of the profit. yes its real money. I will update more when money starts to come in so you can get an idea of how long it takes. Bless and be Blessed have an amazing day!

Iron Man Rocks!

I'm writing lenses on Squidoo and would love you to join me

Awesome DIY Iron man costume guide!!! This is so awesome! please check this out! I adore tony stark he is amazing! Now you can be just as creative as he is!
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is oil good for your hair

I have written a blog based on my knowledge as a hair stylist please check it out in the link belowhttp://www.squidoo.com/is-oil-good-for-your-hair-35687

simple recipe

Time it will take 10-15 min.
 You will need 
1 can of Chef Boyardee Ravioli
1 piece of boneless skinless chicken
chili powder
garlic powder
onion powder
ground pepper
butter
a sauce pan


Once you have everything start heating the sauce pan over med-high heat with butter as much as you like to grease the pan up. place the chicken in and start to cook it occasionally flipping for a total of 8-10 min. then lower the heat to med-low and place in the can of ravioli. use the spices recommended or just some you really enjoy or even fresh garlic and onion. Then take a fork and knife and shred the chicken it should separate fairly easy now. mix it all together and stir about two min. then it is ready to serve and enjoy! :)

New way of carjacking

I honestly can't believe how clever people are. But it still gives them no right to do this.  I mean honestly, you really have to be hitting hard times, to do this to someone. please I urge you to read the letter in the picture it could save your life. And feel free to pass it on!

This is me

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I got a twitter twatter

so I just signed up for a twitter account I am CrystinaAsh @TheBloodytoe

Doctor Who Fan

I am such a huge doctor who fan that I honestly hope that the missing footage is proof that he really exists and this right here just makes me want to scream that This is proof! http://ifunny.mobi/i/DxpGHWHu1 Ha Ha but, no seriously how freaking awesome was Google to do that? I am so in love right now! But, by the way, can not wait until, November 23rd this year when I will be super depressed as...

                                                                      Matt Smith, 

                                                       steps down oh, that gorgeous man!

                                                                   and Peter Capaldi,                                                                           takes over all i can hope is that he does the show justice, and he is defiantly not bad looking, so good start there Oh and if you happen to be an Iphone user check out this link to a doctor who phone case right now only 3 dollars and free shipping i'm so pissed i have an android atm!!
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Just an update

     So my friend and I are actually doing the supernatural workout that someone posted on i will post a link at the bottom. So far it's been going really well. and it actually does work you  wake up the next day feeling soar because each episode varies some are strenuous and some of them are really easy. and it takes away that guilty pleasure of feeling like a couch potato. Here is a recent photo of ours

juxtapost http://www.juxtapost.com/site/permlink/92a270e0-de01-11e2-9fab-c5307de1ef17/post/supernatural_workout_game__first_few_seasons_i_think_/